She read about how she was a princess in God's sight and how he wanted the very best for her.
She committed herself to sexual purity, to high standards, and to waiting for the good Christian man that God was going to bring her.
As they dated, she prayed for his improvement, gave him motivational tapes, and urged him to think of God and their future when he was faced with the temptation to drink.
Evan appreciated Cindy’s support, and after 10 months of dating, he asked her to marry him. Instead, his unresolved habits resurfaced and shattered her heart.
He still had occasional setbacks with alcohol, but they were less frequent than before. Soon after their engagement, Evan’s real estate business began to falter. Cindy’s story is a common one among Christian single women of all ages.
Under stress, he started to work longer hours, and frequently stopped by the sports bar on his way home. Sincere Christian women often will ignore the nice Christian guys and instead pursue relationships with the “bad boys.” Some ladies even find that they're only attracted to the rebels. Before answering that, I think I need to explain what I mean when I say “bad boy.” A bad boy is a man who is outwardly attractive, but he’s unwilling to offer sacrificial love in a relationship.
Should I try to be her friend first, wk her a bit, or just treat her like any other random sloot I wanna bang?In Italian we say (roughly translated): “He who begins well is halfway done”. An American girl will show you if she has interest in you, and she won’t be afraid to ask you out. But in Italy, especially for the first date, looks definitely count a lot. If she says she can’t go when you ask her out for a date, it’s probably true. An Italian girl always wants to know how much you are willing to work for her. American girls pay attention to how they dress, but guys… They’re often deemed as looking acceptable once they meet the minimum standards.Evan liked to visit a local sports bar and relax with his old college buddies, which Cindy didn’t mind.The only times it really bothered her was when he occasionally went overboard and wound up intoxicated.